Is it possible to find Love online
In case you are wondering, after losing my late wife to a battle of cancer, I decided to once again get out into the market and find a new partner.
Friends and Family were very helpful at organising blind dates which invariably were a huge disaster. Finding someone suitable after having been married for 18 happy years was not going to be an easy task.
Eventually out of sheer boredom and probably a lot of frustration, I eventually logged onto the internet and joined an online dating site.
I really can not say what I was expecting but I knew that anything was going to be better than going out on another hellish blind date.
To my surprise I started receiving a lot of responses from women all over the world – I probably had on average at least 18 women a day wishing to make contact with me. This is the great thing about online dating – normal procedures where it is taboo for a women to show interest in a man do not exist.
The greatest part of all the responses is that you can sift through them in your own time – have a good look at the profile of the person sending a request to you, and then make a choice as to whether you would like to contact the person back. Needless to say there were many contacts that were swiftly deleted and a couple that I responded back to.
Being able to get to know someone online before you actually get to meet the person is really great. A couple of messages back and forth quickly helps you to reveal whether you are on the right track or not.
After only about 10 days since registering online I received one particular request. Immediately I knew that this one was interesting. However I did not respond immediately but also did not delete the request, as the women concerned was a bit further away than I had anticipated finding a partner (half way across the world). A further 3 days passed before I eventually decided to respond.
Online messages soon became emails and online chatting and then personal phone calls. After 1 month of calling each other I eventually decided to take the plunge and travel hallway across the world to meet her face to face.
Cutting a long story short, we have now been happily married for 9 years and I truly can say that I managed to find the best wife any man could ever dream of thanks to dating online.
I met her through this site – Cupid-Date
Can you also succeed in online dating
Online dating is just so superior to conventional dating and with such a bigger net to find a partner in that there is absolutely no reason why you should not be able to find a lifetime partner like I did.
However I must caution you that there are also a lot of scammers who haunt the online dating sites but a few simple steps will help you to avoid the scams and find true love.
- Use your head – if it sounds too good to be true then it probably is not true. If a 20 year old stunning beauty falls madly in love with you (aged 60 plus) and you have not even met you then you will know for sure that pretty soon she will desperately need your money for some important reason or the other.
- Take time to get to know them properly online – have a look at other online references to the person like facebook etc. Taking a little extra time to get to know them properly before you actually meet them will save heartache. Call them personally on a landline or mobile.
- Travel to meet them yourself, Do not send them an airline ticket to come to meet you. By travelling to meet them personally you will quickly discover if the person is genuine. If there are excuses as to why you should not come then be aware that there is something hiding. Likewise if you do decide to rather fly them out to you you could soon discover that there will be demands for visa money, travelling money etc and then an empty flight seat as they have taken off with your money. If the person is local make sure the first meeting is in a busy public place such as a restaurant etc.
By simply taking note of the above and using common sense at all times you could soon find yourself face to face with the partner of your dreams like I did.
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